The Visible Man: Fear – The Elephant in the Room… The Loss of Empowerment

“I am an invisible man. I am invisible, understand, simply because people refuse to see me.  Like the bodiless heads you see sometimes in the circus sideshows, it is as though I have been surrounded by mirrors of hard, distorted glass. When they approach me, they see only my surroundings, themselves, or figments of their imagination- indeed, everything and anything except me.”

– Ralph Ellison. Author, “The Invisible Man” (1947).

“The invisibility syndrome is a model that has been present within African Americans for decades.  The invisibility syndrome is defined as when one feels and believes that their personal talents, abilities, and character are not acknowledged or valued by the larger society due to racial prejudice.”

– AJ. Franklin (2000).

“I should have never gone back to the car.  I am angry at myself for doing so.  I put myself at risk.  And now I doubt myself.  Will I lose control again?”  

– “Living In the Past”. Excerpt from, The Lynching of Emmett Till Recalled…Living “With” Fear… Not “In” Fear.

“I know that you like girls, but you are eighteen years old now- a grown man. You can flirt with colored girls but stay away from white girls. They’re trouble. Oh, please Lil’ George, don’t look at them, don’t talk to them, and for sure don’t touch them, not even by accident. Colored men have been lynched for less.”

– A father’s stem warming to his son… “The Lost Eleven” (2017).

My Dear Readers,

Due to the outpour of remarks from the last blog, “The Lynching of Emmett Till Recalled…Living “With” Fear… Not “In” Fear,” I decided it was worthwhile to follow up with a post that provides more insight into this situation.

The Lynching of Emmett Till Recalled…Living “With” Fear… Not “In” Fear. (Recap)

A letter was written by an older black man raised during the time Emmett Till was lynched.  During a recent store visit, he had accidentally attempted to open the door of the wrong vehicle. In the process of doing so, he was stunned to see a white female sitting in the vehicle. He had what can best be described as an “Emmett Till Moment” in which he recalled the lynching of Emmett Till, a 14-year-old black boy who was murdered based on the lie of a White woman that he had “touched her”.

 Although he had apologized and left the “scene” he later returned to the same vehicle to inform the white woman that his vehicle was four parking space away. He stated she looked at him with indifference before turning away.  The older black man, lapsing into the past, in his “Emmett Till Moment” walked away, later writing that he was angry at himself and having fears of loss of control.  He is now unsettled, unbalanced and unstable.

Outpour of remarks: (I will seek to integrate these remarks into the analysis).

  1. “His parents are to blame [by] forcing him [and] by ‘putting the fear of God’ into him!”
  2. “He has poisoned his children and grandchildren with his fear!”
  3. “I just don’t get why he would go back to the car; he wasn’t in danger from the woman.”
  4. “So, what if she had called the police… he didn’t do anything!”
  5. “He overreacted… nothing happened… so he just overreacted!”
  6. “It sounds like he has social anxiety rather than being traumatized.”

The Fear of God: The Transmission of Trauma

Consider the following: this was the time in which domestic terrorism against black people was prevalent especially in the southern states were racial segregation was strictly enforced and black people had no legal protection. To blame black parents for simply seeking to protect their children from physical harm based on allegations from a white female is victim blaming. Victim blaming is a devaluing act that occurs when the victim of a crime is held responsible.  In this situation the family is being victimized by domestic terrorism and sought to protect their son by the only means at their disposal, internalized fear. This internalization of fear had been imposed upon them by whites seeking to uphold segregation through manipulating fear that was passed down from earlier generations.

Poisoning the Children and Grandchildren: Psychological Transference 

Poisoning is the act of intentionally administrating a substance that is harmful to one’s body. The older male who is said to be Living in the Past, the grandfather, is not poisoning his children and grandchildren.  He is transmitting intergenerationally what had been transmitted to him from his parents.  In doing so he is exhibiting the stage of psychological transference where he is redirecting his feelings, his fear of white women, onto his children and grandchildren with the intent to protect them from physical harm including death.  The same psychological trauma passed to him from his parents following the lynching of Emmett Till.

Returning to the Scene of the Crime – The Fear of the Invisible Man

There is the consistent question of “Why did he return to the car?  He was safe. He had left without there being any confrontation. He should have simply left and never returned. And yet understanding the two subtypes of traumas to which he was responding; it was essential for his “peace of mind” that he returned to the “Scene of the Crime.”

In addition to responding to intergenerational trauma, he is also being impacted by another trauma known as the Invisibility Syndrome.  AJ Franklin (2000) describes the invisibility syndrome as when one feels and believes that one’s personal talents, abilities, and character are not acknowledged or valued by the larger society.  AJ Franklin (2023) adds the invisibility syndrome results when the individual feels one’s personality and worth are disregarded because of other’s prejudice.  In this situation, it can be clinically indicated, this individual psychologically transferred his fears regarding the outcome of the Emmett Till lynching upon the young white woman sitting in the vehicle.  It is clinically indicated that he is now responding to the trauma of the Invisibility Syndrome following being “dismissed” by her when he attempted to explained that his vehicle was four parking spaces away.

Caught…Trapped…No Way Out…The Allegation of a White Woman & The Loss of Identity

There is the argument that he was never in danger; he could have left and even if the woman had called the police, there was no criminal action on his part and therefore, no action would have been taken by the police.  There are two problems with this argument: (1) it does not take into consideration the emotional state of a traumatized person responding to deeply internalized oppression as to the weight that is given to allegations by a white woman against a black man and (2), it dismisses the reality of black and brown communities that the function of the police is to… subjectively rather than objectively, provide enforcement of the law.

Keeping in mind this man’s previously stated impacts of both psychological transference and the transmission of intergenerational trauma, it is feasible that this individual may have felt caught, trapped, and not having a way out due to any possible allegations she could have made. Therefore, he felt that he was in danger and had to return to allay the woman’s fears. However, his trauma doubled when upon his return, she dismissed him.  It is feasible this dismissal created the trauma of invisibility syndrome resulting in the individual’s perception of loss of Identity.

Concluding Comments: The Loss of Empowerment

Question: Why won’t he just live his life? Why won’t he let it go?

The trauma of Invisibility Syndrome can result in dysfunctions including low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence, and negative emotions such as frustrations, loneliness, emptiness, and sadness.  Trauma impact has permeance.

So, in seeking to understand his reason for returning to the vehicle, this individual was trying to tame his fear.  Recalling the words of the father to his son:

 “…. stay away from white girls. They’re trouble. Oh, please Lil George, don’t look at them, don’t talk to them, and for sure don’t touch them, not even by accident. Colored men have been lynched for less.”

However, instead of taming his fear, the result was self-doubt and the loss of control.  In doing so, as he recalls her dismissal as he stands in front of her vehicle, he acknowledges what he fears the most, his own invisibility.

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My Dear Readers,

The mistake that is often made by white mental health professionals when treating African Americans is that the foundation of their training does not provide for an understanding of African American cultural values and mores or awareness of the impacts of racial prejudice and so it gets overlooked. This often results in African Americans being mislabeled as well as misdiagnosed.

There is a concern that African Americans responding to the trauma of Invisibility Syndrome are mislabeled or misdiagnosed as having Social Anxiety Disorder. With Social Anxiety Disorder, people seek to make themselves invisible to others.  They don’t want to talk so they don’t draw attention to themselves.  They look down so they won’t make eye contact.  In contrast, the person responding to the trauma of Invisibility Syndrome feels they are being dismissed; the individual is left with feeling of the loss of empowerment, their abilities personality and worth lack value due to the prejudice of others.

Furthermore, treatment protocols are created from the standpoint of the mental health professional’s values therefore including their biases and reinforcing their own values at the cost of understanding the cultural values of others.

One such protocol is called Self-Reflection and Awareness. It states the following:

“The first steps towards overcoming the feelings of being invisible is self-reflection and awareness. Take some time to analyze your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors in situations where you feel invisible.  Ask yourself questions like: Why do I feel invisible in these situations?”

This approach fails because it targets the individual African American who is being victimized by being made invisible by the larger society. Therefore, this approach used by white mental health professionals amounts to nothing more than victim blaming and reinforcing devaluing of one’s identity for the benefit of the larger society. It is essential that African Americans be very careful when selecting a mental health provider who, due to training, personal beliefs, or biases, reinforces the traumatic wound.

In the treatment of the trauma associated with Invisibility Syndrome, utilizing the ABC Protocol and understanding that trauma has permeance is of utmost importance.   Therefore, the memory of the traumatic experience can reemerge at any point in time. The objective is not to overcome the trauma, rather the role of the traumatized person is to become an advocate, bringing “balance” to the traumatic experience and “calmness” to the external environment in which the traumatized individual resides.

In the situation of the loss of empowerment for this person holding traumas of his past invading his present and into the future, the focus is to be able to “Return to the Scene of the Crime”, aka, his long-held memories, working to lessen the weight or burden with the focus of achieving peace and empowerment in walking his landscape…we know as life.

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Returning To the Scene of the Crime

I want to return to the scene of the crime

I do not want to go back

Going back can bring pain, suffering and unresolved memories

Returning, I am armed with wisdom and knowledge, which I now take to the future

I am empowered

Whatever I was, I am no longer

The past is what it was. It cannot be recovered

I live for today.  To understand and uncover

I seek the tomorrow.  To explore and discover

Self.

Dr. Micheal Kane

Until the next time… The Visible Man… Invisible No Longer

The Visible Man: The Lynching of Emmett Till Recalled – Living With Fear, Not In Fear

“Invisibility is an inner struggle with the feelings that one’s talents, abilities, personality, and worth are not valued or recognized because of prejudice and racism. 

– Dr. A.J. Franklin. Professor, Educational Psychology, Boston College

“Dorham testified in 1955 that Emmett grabbed her hand and waist and propositioned her, saying he had been with “White women before”. But years later, when in an interview she stated, “That part’s not true”.

– Dr. Timothy Tyson. Senior Research Scholar, Center for Documentary Studies, Duke University, author “The Blood of Emmett Till” (2008).

“Sixty-eight years ago, there was the unspeakable murder of Emmett Till, a 14-year-old Black boy from Chicago.  It has confronted America to see this as a story about monsters, her being one of them.  But the truth is what was unspeakable was the American social order that did nothing about Emmett Till or thousands more like him.”

– Dr. Timothy Tyson

“After hearing every aspect of the investigation and evidence collected regarding Donham’s involvement, the Grand Jury returned a ‘No Bill’ of both charges Kidnapping and Manslaughter,” the statement said. The murder of Emmett Till remains an unforgettable tragedy in this country and the thoughts and prayers of this nation continues to be with the family of Emmett Till.”

– Federal Grand Jury minutes (2008)

My Dear Readers,

In my most recent blog, “The Unspoken Truth: Lynching’s… No License Required” (03.31.24), I gave an accounting of my visit to the National Lynching Memorial, also known as, The National Memorial for Peace and Justice.  In doing so, I honored my commitment of “bearing witness” to man’s inhumanity.

In bearing witness, I view this as my commitment to self in walking my landscape.

The landscape is Life.  One of the essential realities of Life is death is a certainty. What remains uncertain is:

  • How we live our lives.
  • What we experience in our lifetimes.
  • The memories we leave behind with the individuals we will encounter.

In today’s blog, I am providing an analysis of the traumatic reaction an individual had following an unforeseen and unanticipated experience. The title of his story is: “Caught… Trapped…No Way Out!” 

Caught… Trapped…No Way Out! 

Dear Dr. Kane,

Recently, I read one of your blogs in which you visited the Lynching Memorial in Montgomery, Alabama.  I found the blog to be alarming, impactful, and at the same time very informative.  However, I am writing to relay a personal experience that occurred following reading the blog.

I am a 73-year-old, retired professional living in Seattle, WA.  I am originally from the Delta area of Mississippi.  My father moved the family to Seattle in the mid 60’s to escape the racial violence and lynchings occurring during those times.  My grandfather who was a pastor of a small church was lynched due to his advocacy to achieve black voter registration.

Recently following a store run to Costco, I had an experience that today continues to shake me at my core.  While leaving Costco after a long, tiring day, I rolled through the parking lot with my groceries to my car, pulling out my electronic key, I noticed that my automatic key wasn’t unlocking the door.  Being somewhat frustrated, I grabbed the door and started pulling on it.  To my shock, I saw this young white woman sitting in my car…then I realized that I was standing at the wrong car!

She looked up at me, surprised.  In return, I looked at her in shock. I blurted out an apology and quickly left and found my car. What I did next has shocked me to my core. When I found my car, I inexplicably turned around and returned to this white woman explaining through her rolled up window, that my car was “four spaces down”.  She puzzlingly, looked up at me and went back to reading on her cellphone.  I immediately left the parking lot.

I have been seeking since that incident to make sense of my actions.  As a child, I recalled my parents constantly schooling me about the death of Emmett Till and putting the “fear of God” in me to maintain a safe distance from white women.

My parents passed away a long time ago but instilled in me this fear of white women.  I have done the same to my sons.  My grandsons in this generation are clueless to this concern. In accepting my parents’ fears, in the workplace or public situations I either steer clear or maintain my distance from white women.

I am angry at myself for how I reacted.  My children and grandchildren’s childhoods were good without enduring such experiences.  As much as I want to talk to them about this, I simply can’t do it.

I should never have gone back to the car.  I am angry at myself for doing so.  I put myself at risk. And now I doubt myself.  Will I lose control again?   I feel like I never got over my grandfather’s death.  I feel like I am living in the past.  Do you have suggestions as to how I can get over these feelings.  Hopefully you will answer. 

Living in the Past.

Seattle, WA.


My Dear Readers,

As previously mentioned, my goal is to analyze this individual’s actions which can be generalized to the many African American males as well as preceding generations.

The individual’s signature – “Living in the Past” is reminiscent of earlier criticism from a white female viewer suggesting “Don’t live in the past…live in the present”. This statement is a fallacy of White Illusion as to how others not having your experience are lending expertise on how Black people should respond to psychological traumatic expereicnes in their present lives.

Psychological Transference and Transmission of Trauma

The reactions of this individual to this situation bring forth two elements: Psychological Transference and Transmission of Trauma. Both are defined as:

  • Psychological transference: is when someone redirects their feelings about one person onto someone else.
  • Transmission of trauma: there are two types of transmission, Intergenerational and Transgenerational. In Intergenerational Trauma, the trauma gets passed down from those who directly experienced the traumatic event whereas in Transgenerational Trauma, the descendants of the traumatized individual were not directly exposed to the incident.

Living in Fear…The Internalizing of F.E.A.R

This individual was born and raised in an environment of racial violence whereas at any time his life was at risk.  This was also the time in which the black community was reeling from the lynching death of Emmett Till.  His parents sought to protect him by reinforcing prenotions of impending harm specifically possible death arising from interactions with white women.  Following the lynching of his grandfather, the family relocated from the racial violence of the segregated South in the mid 1960’s to the “safe haven” of the Pacific Northwest, the parentally directed fear of white women relocated as well.  During his developmental stages of childhood, adolescence, early, middle, and now latent adulthood, this individual has internalized a self-induced protocol designated to maintain keeping himself safe in a world that is unsafe and as such can erupt violently, instantly at any time. 

This protocol that I have designated F.E.A.R is the abbreviation for Frightful Experiences Assuming to Real.  This individual has created a boundary/buffer zone suggesting, as long as he maintains the boundary, he can buffer or so, protect himself from the angry external environment that holds racial hatred and therefore his demise and destruction.  This zone, is known as A.D.T

  • Acceptance of the status quo,
  • Distancing from the external threat (white women) and
  • Tolerance of the perceived threat

Returning to the Scene of … The Crime

Question: Why? Why? Why? … did this individual return to the scene of the crime?  Specifically, after realizing he had attempted to enter the wrong vehicle and had subsequently left the scene, why did he return to tell the white woman his car was four spaces away?

Response: In his conscious mind, while accidentally approaching the wrong car, he had awakened the internalized fear that had held him in check for almost seven decades.  At the time he had nonvisual recall of the lynching of Emmett Till. In his actions, he had crossed over the boundary which had been instilled from years of parental direction.  He returned to the vehicle out of fear that she was going to alert the police and therefore place him at further risk of injury, arrest, death, or imprisonment.  Specifically, and out of desperation he sought to assure the white woman that she was safe and most importantly he was not a threat.

To take note, tolerance in psychological terms is defined “as a fair and objective attitude toward those whose lifestyle differs from yours”.  However, in this situation there is not the creation of a “fair and objective attitude”.  Instead, this is a desperate attempt of parental intervention being passed down to this individual for one purpose…SURIVIVAL. 

Transformation: Living with Fear…The Integration of F.E.A.R

This individual can move toward emotional wellness.  This can begin with him wanting to transform the concept from Living in Fear to Living with Fear.  The objective is to transform the movement of internalization, or freezing the emotions to integration which is the actions of uplifting and bring fulfilment.  The clinical protocol integrating F.E.A.R details the following:

  • Facing the turbulence or upsetting emotions
  • Embracing the feelings
  • Acknowledging the pain and suffering
  • Responding by empowering towards emotional wellness

Concluding Comments-Dr. Kane

This blog relates a story of an African American elder who escaped the racial violence of one environment only to live in fear as a survivor of the transmission of trauma in another environment 2500 miles away. In recalling the Federal Grand Jury statement that:

“The murder of Emmett Till remains an unforgettable tragedy in this country and the thoughts and prayers of this nation continues to be with the family of Emmett Till.”

It rings with words of truth that the murder of Emmett Till remains an unforgettable tragedy not just for Emmett Till but for the large numbers of Black males who have been made victims and now survivors of this horrific deed and tragedy.  Emmett Till is dead and may he continue resting peacefully.  However, there are many who continue to suffer every day silently as they continue to accept, distance, and seek tolerance from unseen abuse.


My Dear Readers,

It has been my privilege to share with you my journey of “bearing witness to man’s inhumanity”.  As I continue to walk my landscape, my focus is achieving the following: uncovering… discovering… recovering.

  • Uncovering: the truth…exposing the lies.
  • Discovering: sharing…educating…understanding
  • Recovering: healing the psychological wounds

Please stay tuned for my next walking the landscape and “bearing witness” as I travel to Wereth, Belgium to visit The Wereth 11 Memorial and pay homage to the 11 African American soldiers who during the Battle of The Bulge in WWII were captured, tortured, executed and their bodies mutilated by the Nazis.  This information was well known by the American government and was covered up.

To the Black and Brown people seeking to walk their landscapes… be careful and aware of the pitfalls and trapdoors placed by those seeking to impact your journey.


“I am an invisible man. I am invisible, understand, simply because people refuse to see me.  Like the bodiless heads you see sometimes in the circus sideshows, it is as though I have been surrounded by mirrors of hard, distorted glass.”

When they approach me, they see only my surroundings, themselves, or figments of their imagination- indeed, everything and anything except me.”

Ralph Ellison, Author “The Invisible Man” (1947)

Dr. Kane… The Visible Man…Invisible …No longer.